Do you struggle to find new ways how to be romantic? You have given your sweetheart roses, candy, and dinners at romantic restaurants. Also, you have surprised him/her with romantic gifts and called just to say, “I love you.” So what else can you do to score big romance points in your relationship?
The romance factor
Have you ever stopped to consider what romance really is? The essence of romance is letting your partner know how much you love and appreciate them. True romance makes him/her feel special. There are many ways to be romantic, but one of the secrets to romance is to avoid repetition. If you keep doing the same thing over and over, then eventually it becomes stale and loses its romantic quality.
What I am going to suggest might take you by surprise. You may even think, “There is no way that I can do that!” But I encourage you to keep reading. This secret romance tool is writing love poems. Now that you know the secret, hear me out.
I do not usually get excited about poetry, but I had a boyfriend once that wrote me great love poems. It made a big impression on me. In the past, I would not have known how to write love poetry.
Then I remembered haikus from high school English classes. Even if you are not a poet, haikus are fun and easier to compose than traditional poems.
What is a haiku
A haiku is a poem made up of just three lines. It does not rhyme and it does not have a rhythm to it. Traditionally, the first line has five syllables, the second line has seven syllables, and the third line has five syllables.
Here is an example of a haiku:
Jeff: a man of lovesweet, funny, warm, and loving
who fills me with joy
Even though a haiku is traditionally written about nature, you can write about anything you want. There is no better topic to write about than your love.
A potent romance tool
If you want to score some big romance points, then try writing a haiku for the love of your life. You might just be surprised by the response that you get. After all, the purpose of romance is to express your love and appreciation for your mate. Is there a better way to express your love other than writing about it? A love poem can be a powerful way to evoke romantic and loving feelings.
Article by Laurel Barnet from http://www.BuildingYourDreamMarriage.com
Poetry and romance have long been close companions. So if you want to show you know how to be romantic, start paying a bit of attention to the poetic side of your nature.
